Saturday, December 19, 2009

dating deja vu: what if my favorite season is cursed?!

Do you ever experience deja vu?

It seems I have the dating sort.

Last year I met Mr. West Coast, appropriately named Mr. West Coast because of his own ties there. Obviously we had something in common from the start and hit it off well. We met in October and by early December had been on several dates. Something seemed to be going a bit off by the end but I ignored it chalking it up to being a worrywart and wanting things to be too perfect. For the most part I thought they were until a couple of days before last Christmas he broke it off. He wasn't my boyfriend but I certainly felt dumped as I really liked him.

Fast forward to November 2009 and my first date with John Doe. He's nice, normal, and seems to see the world much like I do. I daresay we had that illusive chemistry! Date #2 is made. Also a hit. Hopes elevating. Date #3 goes smoothly (with a bit of awkwardness at the end but that's OK...) That was nearly a week ago and I haven't heard from him. I'm more than a bit confused.

The timelines for these guys are eerily similar. Am I just doomed to have potential autumn romances turn sour? This is a little freaky. Am I cursed or something?


Ms. M said...

Ugh. That stinks. :( They must be pretty blind not to realize how AMAZING you are!

KAC said...

Ugh that's annoying...I've totally experienced deja vu before but that's the worst when it happens dating wise!

Ps I also left you something on my blog!

MCW said...

I don't have any great advice...but, I do know if he is the one then he will call. And if now...screw him. Even though it stinks now...